What I learned from having one night hookup

I am not afraid to try sexual toys – if there is any.

If there is one thing I have to tell myself when I am young, it is: I must bring the vibrator when I go out for a one night hookup. In many sexual toys, there is stimulation which is exactly what you need to have orgasm. You should have a one-night stand with both confidence and preparedness. If you don’t know where to hide it, considering how small the toy is. It can even fit into your back pocket.

I think this is an opportunity to try new things. 

If you don’t have a chance to see this person again, why not take this opportunity to try and explore what you have never done before? There is a lot of freedom to go to bed with someone you don’t know. So why not forget your long-standing sexual fantasies and see how they are implemented? If we deny out sexual fantasies r other’s sexual fantasies, we miss the opportunity to build meaningful connections. Embracing our fragility and the fragility of our partners can bring the purest and most honest experience.

I also ask for orgasm

Great sexual encounters includes existence, exploration, discovery and communication, while and orgasm doesn’t need these. Focus on orgasm creates a lot of loopholes in our intimacy, causing us the distance between them which makes one or both of us not fully satisfied.

Although I am fully aware of this, I fully agree that when it comes to one night tinder hookup, it is more of a journey than just orgasm, because there is such a huge gap between the two genders. For me, important thing is to eliminate this gap.

In fact, when I started asking for orgasm with my partner last year, my dating and sexual life became better. If I can help eliminate the gap in orgasm, then I am fully going for it.

It makes me feel strong

Keep your expectations at the level of sexual satisfaction and empowerment, so you don’t think this is a deal. Ultimately, you decide what type of relationship you are engaged in, you measure whether it’s a chemical reaction. You measure the compatibility at all levels. You should be the one to decide whether this relationship is worthy of you.

Every time you make a choice for your body, you are empowering yourself. In a society that still likes to be ashamed of casual hookups or online hook up apps, those women who fearlessly embrace their own sexual desire. Every time I have a one-night stand, I basically say, “This is my body, I will decide what I want to do with it.” Authorization comes not only from complete autonomy, but from every choice you make.

No one is obligated to have a one-night stand. Some people love them, some hate them. Some people, like me, wait a long time, hope they will get better. At least now I know how to successfully carry out a one-night stand, so that my body and spirit feel good. This is the most important thing for me.